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Slow Down and Enjoy Your Elders

In my years of working with elders, and I shudder to think how many that has added up to, I’ve had the privilege of working with many elders. Some were people born before 1900, who invented things like plastic wrap and lunch bags, who participated in the creation of the first nuclear power plant, and who grew up during the great depression. Others told me they remembered the first television shows watched on a neighborhood black and white television.

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Promises, Promises, Promises

One day, when I was a teenager living with my mother, a single parent, she said, “Promise me you will never put me in a nursing home!” She said this immediately after reading a news story about a bad nursing home.  I thought she was being a little over dramatic but, of course made the promise.

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Ethical Wills – More Precious Than Gold

In my profession as an elder law attorney I have the opportunity to speak with people about their final wishes almost every day. We then craft legal documents such as wills and trusts that comply with the law so that the individual’s assets are passed along as smoothly as possible.

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“Hi, I Need A Power of Attorney for my Dad…”

You would be surprised how many times we get that call in our office. A Daughter or son calls and wants us to prepare a “simple” power of attorney for the parent. But it doesn’t always work out. Before anything else we ask, “Why is your parent not calling?” The answer to that question will tell us so much.

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Helping Those Who Were Bad Parents

One of the misconceptions about the very frail and old is that they were all good, kind people.  Sadly that is not necessarily the case.  Mean people live long and get old every bit as much as nice people.  Some of those people were bad parents; very bad parents. 

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